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The best things in life are the nearest: Breath in your nostrils, light in your eyes, flowers at your feet, duties at your hand, the path of right just before you. Do not grasp at the stars, but do common work as it comes.Live life to the fullest,be certain that daily duties and daily bread are the sweetest things in life.

The art of living with life's more complicated feelings lies in our ability to see the intertwining of happiness & unhappiness.



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Thursday, February 23, 2012

我是一个很怕主动联系别人的人。
如果我主动找你，那是因为你在我心里很重要；
如果我不主动找你，不是因为你不重要，而是我不知道在你心里我是否重要。

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Tuesday, February 21, 2012

My mood has a 180 degrees change in a few hours. How amazing is that...

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Sunday, February 19, 2012

人生就八個字 … 喜怒哀樂酸甜苦辣. 八個字裡面 … 喜樂甜只占三個. 看透就好. :)

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有時候， 主动， 是因为在乎 。 不联系 ，是因为觉得自己多余 。

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Saturday, February 18, 2012

Feeling uninspired.It feels as if everything having turned flat and uninteresting. I can't point to any specific 'problem', probably there are too many problems which I should have faced long time ago. Ignoring and pretending those problems don't exist have not made life simpler.

Friendships, studies,career path,life motivation,dream...none of this is clear to me. I think friendship is on top of my thought list right now. Having doubts about the friends I have made. Just give me a chance to chat with the old xuewei. She would be able to tell me what are the meaning of friends and friendships and how valuable these things are in life. I'm sure she can. She would tell me to have trust and faith in friends, appreciate and treat them sincerely even when they don't reciprocate in any way. She would convince me they are worthy of such efforts because... they are friends, because helping and supporting one another are what friends do.

There are actually no one i can turn to to talk about my stuff, my life,my disappointment, my insecure, my fear, my worries, my excitement, my joy and my random thoughts. Blame myself for not good in holding conversations, not good at telling stories and too cautious in hidding and revealing my emotions.I'm a good listener but a bad bad talker.

Sometimes I'm just afraid that letting out my emotions to someone may cause a burden to a friend...there's no friend I could confortably let my emotions out.
I'm afraid of judgement.I don't want judgement, I need advices.
Sometimes I'm afraid of being too dependent of a friend's prescence, I'm afraid of letting myself being a needy person...particularly to a person.

Seriously dislike those people who have hurt me in some ways even though I didn't have any intention to treat him/her badly. You may have done that because you dislike me, my personality, my shortcomings and therefore you are doing that to me...and you are doing that in a subtle way. Now I understand why JJ said he wanted to erase some people off his life. I feel like doing that to a few people in my life too. They created sad moments in my life which I'll always be reminded of.

Studies, career path, motivations and dreams. These things are inter-related and because I didn't have a dream to start with, it brought me a lot of uncertainties in the route I'm taking/have taken so far.There are people with ambitions. there are people with clear plans and goals in their life. They know where they want and they know the options availlable to them.Here I am feeling lost and confused over what I could do for life when I graduate. Time is running out. I'm afraid I won't have enough time to sort out my thoughts regardinf these things and then I would find myself going along with the mainstream flow again...How?...If only I had a dream.

I know I have lost the drive I used to have. The drive to improve my life and myself . The drive to make others happy and make myself feel fulfilled. The drive to work hard in order to make somethings work. PJ said drive cannot be given and KA said I should sustain my drive. Ya right, I must find the drive back. I can't let myself stay in this state.


You know there are ups and downs in life...but sometimes the grayness and dullness can hang around rather too long and then you may well begin to wonder what's going on in ur life.

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When I realise I've tried too hard, I stop.

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Friday, February 17, 2012

不是所有人都是真心，所以，不要那么轻易的去相信；不是所有人值得你付出，所以，不要那么傻的去付出；不是伤心就一定要哭泣，所以，不要那么吝啬你的微笑；不是只有你一个人在努力，所以，不要轻易的就放弃。记住：一定要幸福！

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JJ 是猪!!!!!!

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Thursday, February 16, 2012

Sad:[ Totally need another life.

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被放鸽子...早知道就不要期待.

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Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Thanks Kenneth for making me LOL today. =]

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Tuesday, February 14, 2012

越来越不喜欢情人节. 一个冲满爱的日子却让人有一点寂寞. >_____<
我果然老了...
不再像重前那样,喜欢做小礼物送给亲爱的朋友们...突然间觉得没有意义.

[当别人不把你当回事的时候，自己也会开始变得不自信.]

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第二十二个情人节...

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Monday, February 13, 2012




有像吗?

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Sunday, February 12, 2012

寂寞成自然,生活不见得有多么难.

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人生最大的敌人是自己.

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Thursday, February 9, 2012



Yes or No 完全是观点的问题.

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全中.

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❤真正的朋友会接受你的过去，力挺你的现在，鼓舞你的将​来❤

❤当朋友忽略你时，不要伤心，每个人都有自己的生活，谁都​不可能一直陪你 =)

❤真正的朋友更懂你的沉默，而不是你说的话。


❤朋友不一定要门当户对，但一定要同舟共济；
不一定要形影不离，但一定要心心相惜；
不一定要锦上添花，但一定要雪中送炭；
不一定要天天见面，但一定要放在心里。
友情最可贵的不是曾一同走过的岁月，友情最难得的是分别​以后依然会时时想起。
依然能记得----你，是我的朋友！


❤友谊法则第一条：
永远不要让你的朋友感到孤单；
所以啊，有事儿没事儿放心大胆去烦烦他们。

❤再要好的朋友，也有不想说的秘密。

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Sunday, February 5, 2012

知道我为什么不多话吗?
因为解释就好像再掩饰...
说了,我不一定讲得清楚,说了,你不一定就会懂.

掩饰是为了不让别人看见...还是为了不让自己看见?


身边有几个人是值得真心对待的呢?
值得我珍惜的人是珍惜我的人.
为什么长大后要找个可以珍惜的人会那么难?

突然间觉得我有的又好像没有.
突然间发现我是个很难相处的人. 原来要承认这个事实会让我这么难过...
突然间发现我处了家人,我对谁都无法敞开胸怀.
突然间想重新重来一便.

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